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I had honest intentions in telling him, but the day I prepared tell him, he didn't show up. The moment was never right.

 

I asked my friends and my teacher, one of the former and the latter being the most wise people I know (besides Spinda), whether or not I should send this to him. I decided that everyone could get a chuckle out of it, and he would feel admired. Now he doesn't want to be friends anymore.

 

Most likely, I don't have a reason to keep living. At least when I hid my intentions we were friends, and we could talk. Now he's so sick of me that he doesn't want to associate with me. He knows that I'm the scum of the Earth and recognizes that he can dispose of me.

 

This is a huge reminder that many other people view me this way, or would if they knew what kind of person I am. If I had a way to mitigate this wretchedness with something redeeming about myself, then perhaps I could press on, but nothing makes up for my repellent nature.

 

I don't want to die, but I also don't want to be alive anymore.

 

Discuss.

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I don't think you're that bad. You're cool, and sometimes smart, and are really funny really often. Also, I just found out about / watched that video and I found it pretty funny, especially if you get it out of the blue with genuine no context.

 

Like, I really think that guy you were with was sorta being a dick/didn't like you at all/much to begin with if he'd ignore you for one meme he didn't like, you are honestly just fine as you are and are being too hard on yourself for just one thing. Find a new friend, you can get one easy, you're pretty cool.

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There are other fellows who'd appreciate you than those in your immediate vicinity. I recommend Craigslist.

 

Plenty of fish in the ocean

The intention wasn’t to date him, it was to have a laugh. I knew he wasn’t gay, and if he were he’d still be out of my league.

 

You probably don’t understand how hard it is for me to comprehend this.

 

I think it's at least nice that he gave you a clear and direct rejection that doesn't leave any room for ambiguity.

Most people have said something either along these lines or that he was rude. With so many mixed responses I’m not certain what to believe

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Oh boy, relationships in any fashion are a tickle. Most of the time, they suck, especially if there is a sentiment toward the idea of them rather than the person or if you don't believe that you're worth their time. Love, especially young love, is individualism but desire for companionship, at least in my experience and studies of it. There is always one person who wants it, while the other person doesn't really know what they want or what the intent it.

 

Don't falter or fall from the experience, as you can't let one person stop you from finding the next one. Don't rely on the idea of what you gave them to impede the idea that you're worth something and someone's time, especially when your time was spent all on them. It is tragic that this happened, I am sorry, but what he did was completely fine and one of the better ways to go about it. He wasn't rude. Don't let your emotions of them change from what they meant for you, just know that they meant something for you during the time and that the time for you to worry about them and their feelings isn't worth it.

Regardless of wanting to date him or not, you still had feelings and he was never going to be interested since he isn't gay. Having these feelings is only a natural feat to occur, when someone has that effect on you. You have to decide what that means and what you are going to do to move on, since you knew that your feelings were never going to be reciprocated. You were going to get hurt no matter what, and most crushes or feelings capsize.

If you want my advice: Dating is a number's game, one that I am success at but never find anything that is worth my time to completely fall into. You have to know when to have your heartbroken and when it is right to not even give it the chance, but let yourself get hurt. That means more than finding the one person, as it is a step to finding that one person at the right time and be the right one for them, one that is worthy of you and one that you're worthy of. Have that faith, because this guy isn't it nor will he ever be.

Have choice and meaning for when you fall for someone, don't just let yourself fall for someone without making the choice to. If you make the choice, it is a contract to get hurt. You are choosing to get hurt, but you know the outcome if you don't is worth all of the pain you take. Fall for someone. Ask someone out. Don't get mad when they or you move on, it is worth it to fall and move on. You learn and grow, get better and make mistakes. Better to be the person you want rather than fall for a person that you think is not worth making a fool of. If they don't like you the way you are then they are not something worth time. Change for yourself, and let your change attract the people that you want in life. You'll find someone.

Winter said it right, there are other fish in the ocean.

Hell, I don't get texts back or get rejected all the time.

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I can post more but honestly, I am still talking to like two girls right now, so I am not entirely rejected. Plus, I can give the girl from Friday sometime. Or text them back if I actually care. It is never too late, nor it is never not worth it to try if I care enough. Choose your battles with it, and make a fool of yourself along the way.

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